Exclusive Interview with
Lara Gelya
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When did you start writing?
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What makes writing your passion?
Music of the language. Language is always the living soul of a narrative, it is a music specific to the writer’s voice. When I came to the USA in 1990, I did not know any English. It took me about 10 years before I really started to hear and feel the music of the language in different books and distinguish my likes and dislikes when reading books written in English.
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How long have you been writing?
I wanted to write a story about my life journey for many years, but I finally started writing during the COVID-19 pandemic, when I was bound to home and nothing else was on the way.
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What was the feeling when you published your first book?
Elation, disbelief, sense of pride and accomplishment, delusions of grandeur, and panic - all of these at once.
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What’s the story behind your choice of characters?
Since I wrote a memoir about my life journey, I was the main character behind the true events from my life.
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What annoys you the most in pursuing a writing career?
For me, the most annoying factor is that after you published a book you need to invest a lot of your time and money to promote your book and make awareness of it. It is not necessarily my favorite activity.
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How do you get over the “writer’s block”?
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We all know the writer’s path is never easy, what makes you keep going? What advice would you give to new authors?
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If you could go back in time and talk to your younger self, what would you say?
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Do you read your book reviews? How do you deal with the bad ones?
Yes, I read my books reviews. Most of the reviews are on my personal website (https://www.laragelya.com/testimonials), Amazon, Barnes & Noble and Goodreads. So far, I have been lucky not to have a bad review yet.
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What is the feeling when you get a good review?
Receiving messages from people who tell you how much they've enjoyed reading your book is one of the most satisfying experiences an author can have.
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Have you ever incorporated something that happened to you in real life into your novels?
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Which of your characters you can compare yourself with? Did you base that character on you?
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What do you think, the book cover is as important as the story?
A good book cover design not only captures attention but also conveys the essence of the story within its pages. It serves as a visual representation of the book story, and emotions that readers can expect to encounter.
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Do you connect with your readers? Do you mind having a chat with them or you prefer to express yourself through your writing?
I do connect with my readers. In fact, recently I had the privilege to be invited as a guest speaker to the Book Club at one of the neighborhood communities to discuss my book “Camel from Kyzylkum.” My readers asked me many interesting questions.
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How do you feel when people appreciate your work or recognize you in public?
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Who is your favorite author? Why?
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What’s the dream? Whom would you like to be as big as?
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Would you rewrite any of your books? Why?
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If you could switch places with any author – who would that be?
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What would you say to the “trolls” on the internet? We all know them – people who like to write awful reviews to books they’ve never read or didn’t like that much, just to annoy the author.
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What would you say to your readers?
I would say to my readers that:
Life is a long journey. Life is extremely interesting and is a source of joy, but at the same time, it is hard and complicated. The main thing that I learned in my life is to never give up on your dreams and to be yourself!
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Share a bit about yourself – where do you live, are you married, do you have kids?
I'm retired now and live in one of the beautiful 55+ active adults communities in SW of Florida, USA. I live with my husband and our beloved dog.
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What is your day job if you have one?
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What are your hobbies? What do you do in your free time?
Capturing life moments through photographs, and making videos have been my favorite pastime activities. I have a channel on YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@lgelya
When I'm not writing or making videos, I'm traveling the World, wandering through nature, reading, gardening, cooking, or catching my favorite shows.
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Did you have a happy childhood?
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Is there a particular experience that made you start writing?
I wrote a memoir about my life journey because I wanted to document it. My life was not ordinary - I was born in Ukraine and worked for twenty years in the Kyzylkum Desert of the Republic of Uzbekistan, I crossed continents alone, with $140 in my pocket before I finally arrived in the US with refugee status and not knowing any English. I started my life from ground zero again and made it happy and prosperous! I wanted to share my lessons learned, my tears shed, my battles lost and my battles won! It was a time to reflect on my life and share my untold story with the World.
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Do you have unpublished books? What are they about?
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What do you think should be improved in the education of our children? What do we lack?
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If you were allowed 3 wishes – what would they be?
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What is your favorite music?
There are many different kinds of music to listen to. But my favorites are classical, jazz, and relaxing, soothing instrumental music. I love the way they make me feel emotional, and I find that they're enjoyable to listen to.
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