Starting in the early 1970s and for the next 35 years, I kept a detailed journal of my dreams, fantasies, meditations, readings, studies and life events. In 2014 I read back through those journals and wove together this psycho-sexual-spiritual memoir of my journey. It was through that inner journey that I discovered another man living in my soul, thus the title. The Other Man in Me. This man connected me to the symbolic and spiritual meanings of not only my erotic longings and sexual attractions but to the meaning and purpose of my life. This Other Man introduced me to an ancient masculine as a Divine Light in nature. This sacred masculine is one with the feminine, not ruling over her, but co-equal with her--two spirits living in unity and harmony--co-creators in the dance of life.